So I wanted to share very simply: do not underestimate the power of your "decide."
Too often, we get bounced around by circumstances in life. We feel victim to what's happening to us, when in fact... OUR decisions have a HUGE impact on what we encounter. Our decisions are actually a BIG part of our own creating process... The trick is, often we don't even realize there IS something we CAN decide that would change things up and we just think things are what they are. Well, sometimes that's true... but... most times there IS another layer that WE can impact with OUR very own choices.
So... before you decide... take some time to take stock. Look around your experiences and notice if there are any patterns occurring. Is there a thread of similarity in what's happening or not working for you? Try to get conscious about what you actually want and don't want... and then... from that place, think about what you DO want, and decide! Make a clear choice that takes a stand with YOURSELF... and decide.
It's not rocket science really, but its also not always easy to see things. BUT, with practice, you can begin to notice... and make choices that are more conscious about what you actually DO want. If you want help... just ask! I'd be happy to work with you one-on-one...
Really... it's sort of all a big experiment this thing called life and how it all works... so why not get your feet wet and play with the elements that make life tick... Try it out, and see how it goes!
Decide, and watch how things change in your world!